All things are meant for your soul’s development. Understand this and the process becomes clearly painted on your mind. Once you let go of expectations and judgments, then you can see life unfold before you. You can see that all is a well-oiled machine – not the random series of events that you seem to think is your life. Were there no plan for your life, then all would certainly flow more smoothly. If you know that the plan is in place and working, you know that you can let go of the wheel and leave the driving to God. This change in perception does create a far more peaceful experience and does free your mind to focus on more loving pursuits.