Do not let yourself be influenced by the thoughts or wishes of another. Consider always your truest desires. Don’t try to fit in to someone else’s plans for you. Honor your own wisdom. You know very well what you desire and what feels right for you. If you look to others for your guidance, you are looking at guidance given subjectively through the lenses of their own wisdom. You cannot guide another properly nor can you be guided by another. Great dissatisfaction will come to both.